Vishful Studio

Invitation timeline

Pick your event and its date, and I'll work backward to when invitations go out and replies close, with every step ready for your calendar.

What are you planning?

These dates follow common etiquette guidance, not fixed rules. Your venue, caterer or printer may need different dates, and theirs come first.

    Questions people ask

    How early should I send party invitations?

    Common guidance is 2 to 3 weeks before for a child's party, 3 to 4 weeks for an adult party and 4 to 6 weeks for a holiday party, when calendars fill up fast. These are customs, not rules, so go earlier if many guests travel.

    When should the RSVP deadline be?

    For parties, about a week before is usual. For weddings, 3 to 4 weeks before is common, which leaves time to chase late replies and finish seating. If a caterer or venue needs numbers, the deadline has to come before that.

    When do wedding save-the-dates and invitations go out?

    Save-the-dates usually go out 6 to 8 months before the wedding, and invitations 6 to 8 weeks before.

    How do the calendar reminders work?

    Each milestone can go into Google Calendar, Outlook.com, Office 365 or any app that opens an .ics file, as an all-day reminder on the date to aim for. You can also download every milestone in one .ics file.

    Made by Vishful Studio, who also designs invitations.